September 7
Scripture: 1 John 4:8
Source author: Kathleen M. Muldoon
September 17
Looking Beyond the Packaging May the Lord make your love for one another and for all people grow and overflow, just as our love for you overflows. —1 Thessalonians 3:12
I was twenty-three years old when I had my right leg amputated as a result of circulatory problems from an autoimmune disease. Chemotherapy I’d received during this illness caused me to lose my hair, and the massive steroids sent my body ballooning from a size eight to a size twenty-two. I didn’t recognize my reflection in the mirror, and I certainly didn’t expect Ken, the man I’d dated during the previous two years, to be able to love the new me. When I finally allowed him to visit, it was to release him from our committed relationship. Instead of looking relieved, Ken appeared hurt and confused. “Why, what have I done?” he asked. “Look at me!” I cried. “I’m no longer the same person.” Ken took my hand. “Oh, yes, you are. The packaging has changed a little, but inside is still the woman I love.” After accepting Ken’s unconditional love, all that remained was for me to accept myself—altered package and all.
Through His love, God helps us learn to love ourselves. — Kathleen M. Muldoon —